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How to Create Complete & Perfect Freedom

By Dr. Robert Anthony
Creator of Rich Mind Life Strategy

Imagine doing what you want,when you want,with whom you want,where you want,for as long as you want,without ever having to answer to anyone…

Let me ask you a question.

How would you know if you were "rich"?

That may seem like a stupid question. You would probably reply,“I would know if I was rich if I had no bills,or I had a lot of money in the bank,or had income producing investments or business,or I could buy whatever I want without having to go into debt.

What Are True Riches?

If you gave any of the above answers you would be partially correct. Most people perceive wealth or riches as the ability to be financially secure. However,true riches offer an even greater benefit than financial security A person who is truly rich knows they are truly rich when they have achieved the most valuable asset of all: PERSONAL FREEDOM!

This is true wealth – to have complete FREEDOM to live life on YOUR terms.

Focus on What You Want to Attract

When I did not understand the principle of personal freedom,I focused on money. I wanted money,and I wanted lots of it! That was my goal. And because we get what we focus on,I attracted more money.

But then one day I realized that what I really wanted was the freedom to live life on my terms. First,it's important to know when people see how I live and conduct my business,they often say that,“It’s easy for you,you earn a lot of money,you’re famous,you’ve got a huge demand for your books,training programs,etc.” But they miss the point. I purposely designed my life this way when I had no money.

This was my dream. This was my intention.

Focus on Having Personal Freedom

Living this way is the basis of what I teach in my books,audio programs,seminars and personal counseling. What you get in life is determined by what you focus on and the actions you take.

In other words,you get the outcome of personal freedom by focusing on it and practicing it. It is both the cause and the effect or the outcome.

I choose freedom to do what I like,when I like,where I like,with whom I like in both my personal life and in my business.

For example,I do not carry a mobile phone with me unless I am traveling. When I am at home,which is ninety percent of the time,I don’t carry one with me. My reasoning is that I am just not that important that I must annoy everyone who comes into contact with me by constantly and incessantly talking on the phone.

If you feel you have to carry a mobile phone with you everywhere and answer every call,you are not free - you are a prisoner.

Create Your Life By Design

In addition to not carrying a mobile phone with me,I do not take any unscheduled phone calls. Even my personal coaching clients who pay me tens of thousands of dollars must make advance appointments to talk with me on the phone - and those calls are kept to a minimum because I prefer getting emails.

As a result,today,I work only with people I enjoy working with.
No exceptions. If I have a troublesome client,I fire them!

My Freedom Makes Me Truly Rich

I live pretty much as I choose. If I want to take a day off to go out to the races,watch the horses run and have a bet,I do. If I want to travel anywhere,I do. If I want to be with someone,dine anywhere or go when I want,whenever I want,I do.

My peace of mind and my freedom to live my life on my terms is why I am truly rich. Yet,I want to quickly emphasize,this has nothing to do with the amount of money I earn. This just helps to support my lifestyle of freedom.

But here is the point: I created this at a time when I could not afford it. I didn’t wait until I had to money to do it. It was my core desire. I believe anyone can live this way of they choose. People tell me that because of their circumstances it is not possible for them to do this. I tell them “horse pucky.” You can do anything you want if you set your intention and follow through.

This is true wealth. You can have it your way regardless of what you do for a living,regardless of the business you're in,where you live,your current income,wealth or lack thereof,regardless of any variable you can possibly name. If you will deliberately get in ALIGNMENT with creating freedom,YOU - I mean: YOU - can have it!

Get in Alignment with Your Desire to be Free

Your mission - should you choose to accept it - is to get in total ALIGNMENT spiritually,mentally,emotionally,strategically and behaviorally with a lifestyle of personal freedom,so you can enjoy the results of you wealth. This is the position you want to get into,as quickly as possible.

If you want a lifestyle of total personal freedom,now,not 'someday' - You can join me today. It comes from developing a RICH MIND LIFE STRATEGY.

As always,I wish you the best of everything that you are willing to accept for yourself.

Dr. Robert Anthony is the author of 15 books including the million copy best sellers "The Ultimate Secrets of Total Self Confidence" and "Advanced Formula for Total Success". His latest creation is the comprehensive life-changing program,Rich Mind Life Strategy.

Learn how to create a continual flow of money and riches in your life without struggle...

Do you feel content with what you have,if so you have arrived,until that point in time you will always be thinking about whether you have enough or not!! for me if i am able to satisfy mt needs and wants then i have arrived,but trust me i am not there yet.

'Pregnant man' goes on Oprah

An American man who claims he is six months pregnant said it was a "miracle" in his first TV interview.

Thomas Beatie,34,of Bend,Oregon,used to be a woman before undergoing gender reassignment surgery.

He first claimed he was pregnant in an article headlined "Labour of love" in a gay magazine,the Advocate,last month.

Many were sceptical,particularly after Beatie said he would not give any interviews until April Fools' Day.

But speaking on Oprah Winfrey's US chat show yesterday,he said: "Different is normal and love makes a family. And that's all that matters."

Beatie appeared with his wife,Nancy,for the interview. The audience was shown footage of his ultrasound scan and heard the sound of a heartbeat.

As he saw the scan on the monitor,Beatie told the doctor: "She's kicking. I can't believe it. I can't believe she's inside me. This is a miracle. We see this as a miracle."

He described pregnancy as a "human desire",not limited to women.

"I'm a person and I have the right to have my own biological child," he said.

Beatie said pregnancy did not make him feel more feminine.

"It doesn't make me want to go and shave my legs or something," he said. "I'm a man,I just happen to be a pregnant man."

He told Winfrey he had had a sex change but had not altered his reproductive organs because he wanted to have a child.

"I didn't know how,it was just a dream," he said.

"There was no plan laid out."

He said many organisations the couple had contacted for help had advised them against going public,warning: "The world's not ready for something like this."

But he said: "I think people will be shocked because no one's ever heard of a man giving birth before.

"I guess it's a shocking concept,but in this day and age that's possible. And it's happening now."

Dr Kimberley James,the couple's doctor in Bend,Oregon,told the show the pregnancy was "normal".

"This baby's totally healthy and this is,I consider,an average pregnancy," she said.

Beatie was born female and called Tracy Lagondino before undergoing gender reassignment surgery. He is legally married and has been married for five years.

He was a Miss Teen Hawaii finalist but described himself as a tomboy growing up.

Beatie told Winfrey he "found himself" at college after a boyfriend told him he was not feminine enough.

"I feel like I was meant to be exactly who I am today," he said.

if i can just get a plate of MOTHOKOI(is this the spelling of the kamba staple) each day and tell me where i can hide my face from that ka-landlord who owns those mabati shanties....i will have arrived......

.............its all different for us all

They say that when you find your path in life you will know.

To me if you have found your path and are walking it,then you are arriving everyday. Its a journey.

I  got this story by email a while back,sorry if you have read it already but I thought it shows what it means to arrive. The guy who picked up the apples for the girl,that one had arrived.

A few years ago a group of salesmen went to a regional sales convention in Chicago.  They had assured their wives that they would be home in plenty of time for Friday night’s dinner.  In their rush,with tickets and briefcases,one of these salesmen inadvertently kicked over a table which held a display of apples. Apples flew everywhere.

Without stopping or looking back,they all managed to reach the plane in time for their nearly missed boarding.

ALL BUT ONE !!! He paused,took a deep breath,got in touch with his feelings,and experienced a twinge of compassion for the girl whose apple stand had been overturned.

He told his buddies to go on without him,waved goodbye,told one of them to call his wife when they arrived at their home destination and explain his taking a later flight.  Then he returned to the terminal where the apples were all over the terminal floor.

He was glad he did.

The 16 year old girl was totally blind! She was softly crying,tears running down her cheeks in frustration,and at the same time helplessly groping for her spilled produce as the crowd swirled about her,no one stopping and no one to care for her plight.

The salesman knelt on the floor with her,gathered up the apples,put them back on the table and helped organize her display. As he did this,he noticed that many of them had become battered and bruised; these he set aside in another basket.

When he had finished,he pulled out his wallet and said to the girl,“Here,please take this $40 for the damage we did. Are you okay?” She nodded through her tears. He continued on with,“I hope we didn’t spoil your day too badly.”

As the salesman started to walk away,the bewildered blind girl called out to him,“Mister….”

He paused and turned to look back into those blind eyes. She continued,“Are you Jesus?”

He stopped in mid-stride,and he wondered. Then slowly he made his way to catch the later flight with that question burning and bouncing about in his soul: “Are you Jesus?” Do people mistake you for Jesus?

In my world,its not possible to arrive while on earth. what you can be is comfortable,

where you dont worry over your living expenses no matter your lifestyle. coz life is a gift

which is sustained by contribution. if you stop contributing to life,you start dying. its like

this,we breathe in oxygen and give out carbon dioxide. Trees do the reverse. if you stop

giving out Co2,you are dead. if a tree stops giving out O2 its dead with the exception of

 night time.